Dec. 17, 2025

Dec 18-Love Ignites Peace, Buddy the Elf, New Jersey, Steven Spielberg, Brad Pitt, Christina Aguilera, Billie Eilish

Dec 18-Love Ignites Peace, Buddy the Elf, New Jersey, Steven Spielberg, Brad Pitt, Christina Aguilera, Billie Eilish
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I have the perfect co-hosts for this time of year,  actually they can really help you all year long.  Paige and Ashlyn started, Love Ignites Peace.  What is better than living in Love and Peace.  They can help you, achieve peace through love in yourself and those around you. They have an award winning book, journal, courses, blogs.  They do speaking engagements and have a must listen to podcast  Bathtub Chats.  They can definately help you transform yourself and your relationships.  Check them out
 https://www.loveignitespeace.com and you can listen to Bathtub Chats on all the big podcast players.  We also talked about New Jersey becoming the 3rd state, the 1st Panda to leave China.  People having birthdays today - Betty Grable, Steven Spielberg, Brad Pitt, Katie Holmes, Christina Aguilara, and Billie Eilish.

Intro - God did good - Dianna Corcoran    https://www.diannacorcoran.com/
Buddy the Elf - Movie Elf
Empire state of mind - Jaz Z  and Alicia Keys
Need you know - Lady A
Birthday - The Beatles
Birthdays - In da club - 50 Cent     http://50cent.com/
Start me up - The Rolling Stones
Brad Pitt sing in movie Johnny Suede
Boots on - Randy Houser
What a girl wants - Christina Aguilera
Bad guy - Billie Eilish
Chris Farley on SNL - In a van down by the river
Exit - Save Christmas - Kara Ciezki    https://karasmusic.com.au/
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History & Factoids about today webpage

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Well, hi everyone, and welcome to History and Facto. It's

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about today. I am Jeff and today's the Summer the eighteenth.

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Now I just have two awesome co hosts today, Paige

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and Ashland. They're gonna help me talk about love and peace,

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which fits in perfectly with this time of year, and

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it'll probably give you some ideas New Year's resolutions and

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all that kind of stuff make it better than next year.

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How'd you guys introduce yourselves?

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Well, we are Paige and Ashland, And although this didn't

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happen on December eighteenth, on May tenth of nineteen ninety six,

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I gave birth to Ashland, making us mother and daughter.

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But not only are we that, we are business partners

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and co podcasters for our business Loving Night's Peace, which

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happened to be inspired by a moment on July eighth,

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two thousand and eight.

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So yes, born from this July eighth moment of magic,

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where the message of love and Mad's Peace came to

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my mom like a lightning bolt from the sky. We

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have spent years learning how to be the love that

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creates peace in your life in the world, and now

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we help women transform the communication, the conflict, the subconscious

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patterns that shape every relationship in their lives so that

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they can create healthier, happier and field relationships everywhere. And

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also not on this day in history, but earlier this year,

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we had a weight what really cool moment where my

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mom became an international Impact book award award winning author.

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So so many fun things. But we love working together

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and we are also super close personally and have really

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lived the work that we preach and teach, and we're

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happy to be here.

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Well, that is awesome.

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Thanks for inviting us.

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Yeah, well, thanks for being here.

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Love it.

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Base can't get any more important than that, CanYa.

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No, but they really can't.

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All right, we're gonna talk about you all day the

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show and let all the listeners know how they can get.

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They do a lot more than just books too. They've

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got courses and podcasts and we'll get to all that

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kind of stuff. But first we got to celebrate. Do

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you guys know what we're celebrating today?

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Well? I think so?

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How do the elf?

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What's your favorite colors for?

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Howdy elf?

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What's your favorite colors for?

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Do?

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Hoy helf?

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What's your favorite colors? Do? Today?

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Is national answer to the telephone like Buddy the Elf day.

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That's right. Okay. Now, if you remember Buddy the Elf,

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he was played by Will Ferrell in the movie Elf.

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So today we're all supposed to add a little elf

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behavior into our day. You know, the hustle and bustle

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of the holidays, people can get a little surley this

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time of year. So everyone, you know, just kind of

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smile in public and make people giggle. Be silly today.

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You know, you can wear an ugly sweater or a

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holiday socks or a Santa hat. Now when you answer

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the phone, you're supposed to state your name, say you're

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an elf, and then ask the caller what their favorite

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color is. Ye know, just have a fun, silly day.

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Do you guys like that movie?

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I love it? Yeah, I just just watched it the

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other week while wrapping presents.

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Yeah, that's it. One of those that's the first time

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you see you're kind of like what and then it

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comes just a Christmas classic.

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It's great to add a little levity to this time

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of year because I do think even though it's all

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something we look forward to, we all get so caught

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up in the hustle and bustle that adding that, you know,

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just that lightheartedness to this time of season. This season

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is so important.

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It definitely is. That's for sure. All right, let's see

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what's going on entertainment on Dissumber of the eighteenth. Let's

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go back to your two thousand and nine. The number

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one album was I Dreamed a Dream by Susan Boyle,

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jay Z and Alicia Keys add the number one song

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with Empire State of Mind Lady adding the Pellam. They

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had the number one country song with needs You Now He's.

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One Joes Loo Control and jes.

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The number one book was Us for Undertow by Sue Grafton.

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Top movie it was Avatar, a paraplegic marine he has

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sent to the moon of Pandora. Now he's to Orange.

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Should he follow his orders as a soldier or protect

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his new home? It starts Sam Worthington, Zoe Solana and

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Sigourney Weaver. It was nineteen sixty six How the Green

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Stole Christmas? Made his TV debut and on every year since,

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and that had two full length movies from it. He

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has Green fans.

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I got another favorite.

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I wouldn't say Grinch is my favorite, but it's still cute.

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See you guys going to the new Avatar one that's

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just come out like this week.

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I think we will.

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Avatar is actually my mom's one of her all time

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favorite movies.

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The first Avatar, the second one so. But the first

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Avatar I absolutely love.

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You're not a little nervous about the third one?

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Then I am a little nervous.

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Okay, So like a lightning bolt. You said that you

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guys came up with loveing Night's Piece, which is pretty cool.

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So what was your first what'd you first do? What

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was your first thing that it's like, okay, now I

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need to do. Did you start writing? Did you start speaking?

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What happened?

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Well, first of all, I needed to figure out what

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the heck I was supposed to do with this message

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love ig Night's Piece that wouldn't leave me alone, Like

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I just couldn't get it out of my mind. And

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so after a while, I finally decided that what I

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needed to do was figure out how to live those

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three words. That was step one.

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Yeah, that's important. Mm hm, practicewitch beach.

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That's exactly right. So it's been many years, it's been

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probably fifteen sixteen years of peeling back all the layers

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of myself that really had kept me from embodying love,

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you know, unconditional love for myself, being able to love

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and accept others even when they were challenging me, you know,

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to the tenth degree. It's been a really wonderful ride

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to be able to learn how to use love as

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an action in my life, as a tool in my

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everyday life. And Ashland too, she has really embodied this

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message as well.

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So, Ashland, could you see a big change in your

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mom when it came to her?

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An excellent question. I think that, as with most growth,

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it doesn't happen all at once, It's one subtle change

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at a time. But I absolutely can reflect and say

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that the person she is today leaps and bounds healthier, happier,

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more vibrant than the woman she was sixteen years ago.

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And I think that is because she has put Loving

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Nate's pieces her roadmap and her compass of how to

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you know, live out her full potential, her highest vibration

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expression of herself. Yeah, but probably not in that exact second, right,

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because you hear the message and then you kind of

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got to figure out how do I put this into motion?

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And the trial air of that healing and that growth

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and that and that.

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Learning, and you probably just by seeing her going through that,

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that's it just kind of ribbed off on you, right,

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and you just kind of I want to feel like

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she feels.

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Yeah. I mean, I think when it's your mom, she's

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obviously like imparting her wisdom along the way. And I

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also think that the universe, god, whatever you want to

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call it, puts you on your journey. And I think

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we were kind of walking parallel paths of some of

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the own some of our own ways that led us

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each experience the growth that came through following that message.

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So you were probably what a teenager at that time

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when she first came across it.

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I think I was like a kid, like probably like,

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let's see how old am I now, because it was

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more than fifteen years ago, So yeah, I guess at

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early teens. I was probably early teens.

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So that's cool. You didn't like rebel, like, oh mom,

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you're still full of it or anything. You just accepted it.

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That's pretty cool.

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I'm not going to lie to you. There was one

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time where I remember we were driving to the golf

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course Maint my dad and brother for dinner, and she

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was telling me that she read this thing about like, oh,

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picture your livers smiling and just like every organ for

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it's like most brilliant health, Like just picture it smiling.

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And I remember being just such a crab apple like

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teenager and being like that is the dumbest thing I've

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ever heard, like and then but like as always, you know,

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like a little bit later, I was like, Okay, maybe

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I'll try that though, So I think that I did

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have moments where I was like resisting, but I still

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had a lot of respect for my mom and the

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things that she was learning, so I did always kind

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of refer back, and at this point there's no resistance.

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We're both very open, open minded, and I think that

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if anybody is to take something away from this, it's

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being open minded. Lean into the naviies can completely transform

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your world, gone and wild.

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Dreams right pages, You've got a really strong relationship and clothes.

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Did you get lucky with Aslan or was it just

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showing her that the peace of love that got you

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through outlet Well?

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Well, I do. One of my things that I believe

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is that a child actually picks their parents, Their soul

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picks the parents. Is one of the things that I

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believe and I do believe that Ashland picked me and

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her dad, But I also want to say I got very,

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very lucky. She is truly the best daughter any mother

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could ever hope for. And the really amazing thing about

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Ashland is that she just lives from this place that

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is so heart driven. It's so natural to her, and

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honestly that wasn't and sometimes I still even struggle with

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that of really living from that heart open space.

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And one thing that's kind of thinking about a lot

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of people, when you ask them about what is love,

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they don't really even know what love is. Do you

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have to deal with that?

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Yeah? Yeah, you know if you if you decide to

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read Loving Night's piece Our Next Evolution, I really go

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in depth about that and for all intensive purposes. The

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most simple way that I would use to describe that

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to you is love creates goodness. It's more than a feeling.

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It is a feeling, but it's also an action. And

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when you treat yourself and you treat others with love,

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what you're doing is you are instilling this idea of

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goodness in that other person and in that relationship.

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Yeah, I definitely believe love is an action too. I mean,

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it's you there's so many like country songs about how

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I hate you be leave me alone, but I still

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love you, but just get away from me and that

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kind of stuff, you know, But I'll still make your

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coffee or breakfast. I mean, love isn't It's got some

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hormones and stuff when you start out, but it ends

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up being an action.

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Yeah, it really does. And that's the thing I want

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to You know, you don't have to You don't have

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to feel love for every single person on this plant.

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You don't have to feel love for the people that

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drive you crazy. But that doesn't mean you can't treat

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them with love. You can't treat them with love as

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in action.

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And the world will sure to be nice if everybody did.

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When they Yeah, sure would, It's sure would. My mom

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always told me that the hardest people to love are

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the ones that actually need love the most.

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That's true. All right, Let's see what happened on this

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simmer of the eighteenth Well, Happy Birthday, New Jersey. Let's day.

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In seventeen eighty seven, New Jersey became the third state.

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Now it's named after the Isle of Jersey and the

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English Channel capital is Trenton's highest point is high point

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at one thousand and three feet. Now the size of

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New Jersey. It is only the forty seventh biggest state,

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but its population is eleventh most people. So you put

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those two together, New Jersey is the most densely populated

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state we have.

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The New Jersey state bird is the Eastern goldfinch. Fish

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is the brook trout. Mammal is the horse tree, Northern

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Red Oak state. Food and fruit are they same in

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the Northern High Bush Brewwery. Some people born in New

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Jersey Frank Sinatra, Whitney Houston, Meryl Street, Jack Nicholson, Danny DeVito,

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Shaquill O'Neill, Joe Peshi, I st John ban Jovi, some

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of the people born in the Golden State. Now we

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all live there in Colorado. So we're pretty good that

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something happened pretty good happened in eighteen eighty eight, didn't it?

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It sure did. In southwest Colorado, rancher Richard weather Hill

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and his brother in law were out looking for some

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of their cattle and they found the ancient Anastazi ruins

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that make up Masaverty National Park. Maysaverty National Park has

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over four thousand archaeological sites and over six hundred with

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Cliff Dwellings. They think the site was deserted in the

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year thirteen hundred. It is actually a place that we visited.

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I've only been there one time, but when Ashland was little,

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I mean probably like maybe eight or nine, we took

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our first trip to maysa Verti and I have to

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say it was an absolutely magical experience. Colorado has so

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many incredible places, but Maysaverti was one that I would

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go back to. It was just fascinating, and the energy

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there was really good.

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like once too, but you go there and you think, oh,

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there's cliff Dwellings, but then you look and all down

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that entire canyon there's I mean, they run from miles.

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of it. It's like a quintessential memory for me and

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my Colorado travels. And I've lived in Colorado for thirty

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Not going to find that in Iowa, are you?

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No? No, I'm not going to find that in Iowa.

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But we do have Iowa to speak about a little

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bit later in this conversation. Stay tuned in.

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Nineteen ninety eight and Patty Gaston de Luba at the

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first automobile speed record and he got his car up

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to thirty nine whole miles per hour. I mean, when

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you have the need for speed, it clearly cannot be contained.

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Okay, I believe you pronounced that right.

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Yeah, I'm impressed. Your French is way better than my English.

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Ashlin oe wee.

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documentary for Loving Mate's Piece at one point, but ended

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up dissolving that project. But lots of fun, lots of

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fun creative projects. I feel like in France, always innovating,

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always sent in records, doing cool things.

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They have been around for quite a while.

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Well, we'll move to nineteen thirty six in San Francisco,

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where they threw a huge party to welcome Sulan from China,

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who was the first giant panda to ever leave China,

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which is kind of crazy to think and Suelan means

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very cute, but sadly they died tears life and they

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did an autopsy on her and they found out she

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was actually a male panda, but have no idea why

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he died. Interestingly enough, panda symbolized peace, bounced gentleness, and

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inner strength, as well as luck, friendship, and cultural diplomacy,

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which really you know, ties into the Loving Knights piece five.

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You guys need a little pandas or logo.

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We have it, but hey, never too late.

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They sure are cute, yeah they are.

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And they're not aggressive. And you want to know why

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they're not aggressive. They're not aggressive because they eat bamboo

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as their main source of food, so they're always like

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conserving their energy. They're like so docile and they nap

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so much because they eat all that bamboo. But that's

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like their their food source, which doesn't give you a

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lot of energy.

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Turns out, maybe we should find that's a fun fact.

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Yeah, maybe we should need the kids vamboo at lunch

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at school that afternoon.

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That's hilarious. Well.

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In twenty twelve, in Quebec, Canada, Canada is one of

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my favorite places, the Great Maple Syrup Heist went down.

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Police arrested seventeen men for stealing three thousand tons of

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maple syrup from a storage facility that's worth over twenty

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million Canadian dollars. The syrup was stored in barrels the

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thieves would siphon out the syrup and replace it with water.

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Then they got lazy and just took the syrup and

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left the barrels empty. When an inspector went to check

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on the inventory, as he climbed up on the barrels,

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he fell on his butt, thinking the barrel weighed six

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hundred pounds. It didn't. It was empty, and the seventeen

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men were caught and arrested. They would truck syrup to

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Vermont and sell it in small batches, so they didn't

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raise any suspicion. I don't know about you, guys, but

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I always have some maple syrup if I can find it,

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Canadian maple syrup and my fridge. And honestly, I'm really fortunate.

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I have a lot of Canadian friends. And in an

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earlier life I was in the oil business and we

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did a ton of business in and out of Canada.

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But all right, hang on to your hat for this pun,

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ladies and gentlemen. I think the Canadians are some of

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the sweetest people you'll ever meet.

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Well, they are kind of French.

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They are, but they're sweet like maple syrup.

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I know, I just you know, what really makes me

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funny laugh about that story. I mean, it happens in

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every industry, but I mean, granted I'm not a kroak, thankfully,

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but I can't imagine sitting around and thinking, Okay, what

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are we going to steal? Hey, there's all that maple syrup,

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let's go take that. You think that that would pop

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into your mind?

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million Canadian dollars, so yeah, that's it. May not have

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been gold, but it was like liquid gold.

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Okay. Who came up with bathtub chats?

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I have to say that was my idea. We both

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love to take individually a beautiful, just relaxing, candlelight bath

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and I also think that when you're in that like vibe,

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you so your deepest introspection. So with our podcast, Loving

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Maid's Peace Bathtub Chats, we actually have literally recorded almost

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all of our episodes are ones even somewhere. We've interviewed

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others in our own individual bathtubs, like you know, nothing

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on tour, we've had our swimsuits on, we've filmed it

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and everything. But we just really liked this concept of

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like taking a dip into the unknown, right lighting the

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candle of introspection. Just that whole experience that comes with

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taking a bath. And so we've had people that we've

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interviewed on our podcast also fill their tubs, throw their

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swimsuits on and join the pod, which has been a

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really cool fun thing basically what it symbolizes. And I

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want to do something different. I wanted to do something

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that kind of caught atension from a marketing perspective.

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have that right brain left brain thing going on, that

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kind of stuff, And so do you like the candles

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and everything for the show?

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For the show, I don't think. No, we don't really

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because just really pick up on camera the candles that

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we do in milk bath, the flowers, and we are

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transitioning our pod here to a new era of bathtub

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chats and future, so we have to tune into stay tuned.

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But you know, maybe a symbolic candle. We're always lighting

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the inner candle, that's for sure.

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Well, that's cool. So what kind of workshops what I

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can't speak nice you use your friends. What kind of

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workshops do you guys have?

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Well, we're getting ready in the coming year. We've got

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two different workshops scheduled with two different women's groups, and

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both will be around the relationship that you have with yourself.

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And you'll hear us say that your most important relationship

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is yourself. Is the relationship you have with yourself. And

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I know that might really sound like a novel concept

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to some people, but truly, that relationship with yourself is

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the basis for all your other relationships. If you don't

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have a healthy relationship with yourself, then that is shown

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in all of your you know, all the relationships in

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your life. It can be reflected in those relationships.

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We also offer oh sorry, go ahead, oh go ahea.

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is one around conflict resolution. We call it the Art

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of Loving conflict, where you can learn the six conflict

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styles that you know. When you understand them, they can

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transform the tension into as we say, art full of connection.

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And one of the cool pieces of that is you

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can do it without requiring another person's willingness to change

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or participate in the change. And then we offer another

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workshop around relationship healing, which we really dive into what

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we call love six actions, which is a framework to

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heal and deepen your relationship with yourself and others like

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my mom was just talking about that part of self

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that really is so important, but really learning from those

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past and present relationship wounds that are keeping you from

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moving forward and then via these six steps, stepping free.

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And then our third main workshop topic is typically around

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the subconscious mind. So transcending those subconscious limitations is widely

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discussed in today's day and age. Right, we're only about

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ninety to ninety five percent or i'm sorry, five percent,

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five to ten percent conscious, at about ninety to ninety

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five percent subconscious. So it's kind of like you're we're

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a little computers, right are our ones and zeros? Our

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little operating systems are really what's creating a lot of

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the output. So we get in there and help you

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with one of those ones and zeros, So like letting

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go of negative thought patterns or limiting self beliefs, and

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we specifically emphasize in our workshops around all things love

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and relationships.

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I think you guys are dead on though. If you

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can't love yourself, you can't love somebody else.

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That's for sure, you cannot. I'm just going to interject

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here one of the reasons we got into the conflict

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styles and really promoting. That is, you know, AshEL and

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I have a very close relationship, but don't think we

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don't fight. And we had very different dials that we

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both brought to in conflict. And when you bring a

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certain style in conflict, basically you have learned how to

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stay safe at some point in your life in conflict.

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So these are the patterns that you brought into that moment,

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and her pasts were very different from my patterns. In fact,

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they couldn't have been more polarizing to each other. So

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for each of us to be able to really dive

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in and learn our conflict styles, meaning learn what were

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the go to patterns that we went to when we

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needed to feel safe, really helped us in our relationship,

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in our work relationship, especially because we could take that

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understanding into any time conflict was started brewing.

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So, in conflict, when they come to you and your advice,

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is there one that stand out or is it general?

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Does it go from spouse to kids, to co workers

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to their parents? Is there anyone that people have the

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most conflicts with?

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Well, I'm of the go ahead, Ashlyn, you go ahead.

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I'm of the opinion that usually in your closest relationships

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is where you have the most conflict, So.

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It can be any of those that you listed, just

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depending on the person who that closest relationship is. I

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also think it's a misguided thought. We often think that

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to be closest and when you have to be like them,

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And the reality is some of the people that you

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love the most probably are vastly different than you, and

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so it's like how to love each other with these differences.

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And it's like the five love languages, right, I don't

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know if you've heard of those, but where you can understand, like, oh,

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like the reason that my mom or my partner, you know,

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my brother is not feeling loved is because I'm trying

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to give him gifts and he doesn't actually give a

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crapic about gifts. What he really needs a words of affirmation.

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Once you unlock that, the relationship gets better. And so

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for us with the conflict styles especially, it's just like that,

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it's like, oh, I need to communicate with my mom

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in this way so she feels seen, heard and loved,

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and that way our relationship can be stronger. But that

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happens in every single relationship. To your point, friend's family,

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significant others. It no one's free from the conflict and

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the importance of those styles.

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And if you've mastered that, come come on this point,

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come on one of our podcasts and let us know

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how you've officially gotten to the point where you completely

470
00:24:05.200 --> 00:24:05.720
mastered that.

471
00:24:06.920 --> 00:24:09.359
I don't think that's going to happen on this plane.

472
00:24:10.400 --> 00:24:13.119
I think that's something for the next level, all right,

473
00:24:13.160 --> 00:24:15.440
so we see it was born on December the eighteenth

474
00:24:15.759 --> 00:24:19.160
actress singer, pinup girl Betty Grable. She was born in

475
00:24:19.200 --> 00:24:22.119
Saint Louis, Missouri, in nineteen sixteen. Now, during the nineteen

476
00:24:22.160 --> 00:24:24.759
thirties and forties, she made over forty movies. Now, those

477
00:24:24.799 --> 00:24:27.000
movies they made over one hundred million dollars, which would

478
00:24:27.000 --> 00:24:29.240
be two point three billion dollars today. But you have

479
00:24:29.279 --> 00:24:31.279
to think about when she was going there, the movie's

480
00:24:31.319 --> 00:24:33.160
cost twenty five cents to go to, not this ten

481
00:24:33.240 --> 00:24:36.759
and eleven dollar stuff. Now, during World War Two, her

482
00:24:36.759 --> 00:24:38.960
pin up poster of her wearing a bathing suit, it

483
00:24:39.000 --> 00:24:42.000
was a number one selling poster in the entire war. Now,

484
00:24:42.039 --> 00:24:44.079
she was such a sex symbol. Her legs are insured

485
00:24:44.119 --> 00:24:47.319
back then for a million books. Now she had she

486
00:24:47.359 --> 00:24:49.440
married her second husband for twenty two years and They

487
00:24:49.440 --> 00:24:52.160
had two daughters that ended in divorce. Betty. She died

488
00:24:52.200 --> 00:24:54.799
from cancer in nineteen seventy three, fifty six years old.

489
00:25:01.400 --> 00:25:15.000
Said Sax said sex truck truy truck.

490
00:25:16.039 --> 00:25:18.680
No one is sure how but guitarists for the Rolling

491
00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:22.559
Stones Keith Richards is eighty two. He was born in Dartford, England,

492
00:25:22.599 --> 00:25:25.640
in nineteen forty three. He and Mick Jagger form The

493
00:25:25.720 --> 00:25:29.079
Rolling Stones in nineteen sixty two. They have co written

494
00:25:29.160 --> 00:25:32.160
most of their songs and The Stones have sold over

495
00:25:32.279 --> 00:25:34.960
two hundred and forty million records. Man, that is a

496
00:25:35.039 --> 00:25:38.200
lot of records. Keith gets to sing one song every concert.

497
00:25:38.640 --> 00:25:42.359
He has his choice between Happy Before You Make Me

498
00:25:42.480 --> 00:25:46.599
Run or Connection. Keith has released three sol solo albums.

499
00:25:46.759 --> 00:25:49.839
He has three daughters from a girlfriend. Then he married

500
00:25:49.880 --> 00:25:52.240
in nineteen eighty three and they have two daughters.

501
00:25:52.799 --> 00:25:56.279
Movie maker Steven Spielberg is seventy nine today. He was

502
00:25:56.359 --> 00:26:00.160
born in Cincinnati, Ohio, in nineteen forty six, and he

503
00:26:00.240 --> 00:26:03.640
has been nominated for twenty four Oscars, of which he

504
00:26:03.680 --> 00:26:07.319
has won three. Over his last and you know seventy

505
00:26:07.440 --> 00:26:10.880
nine years here on Earth, he has won one Oscar

506
00:26:11.000 --> 00:26:14.279
for Best Picture and one for Best Director. For Schindler's

507
00:26:14.319 --> 00:26:17.319
List and Best Director of Saving Private Ryans. So those

508
00:26:17.359 --> 00:26:19.599
are his three oscars. He's one out of the twenty four.

509
00:26:20.200 --> 00:26:23.599
The first movie he directed was Sugarland Express, which starred

510
00:26:23.680 --> 00:26:26.960
Goldie Hawn and his first wife was actress Amy Irving.

511
00:26:27.119 --> 00:26:30.039
They had a son, and then he married Kate Capshaw

512
00:26:30.119 --> 00:26:32.759
in nineteen ninety five and together they have five kids.

513
00:26:33.119 --> 00:26:36.400
And another interesting factoid, Stephen was diagnosed with delexia, but

514
00:26:36.480 --> 00:26:39.160
dyslexia when he was sixty years old, which is so

515
00:26:40.000 --> 00:26:42.240
just interesting and indicative of how far we've come with

516
00:26:42.400 --> 00:26:47.240
identifying different learning disabilities and things that people have dealt

517
00:26:47.279 --> 00:26:50.240
with throughout life. I will tell you personally, I know

518
00:26:50.480 --> 00:26:52.759
almost no directors in Hollywood. I'm not the best at

519
00:26:52.799 --> 00:26:56.079
pop culture, but I certainly have known Steven Spielberg's name.

520
00:26:56.519 --> 00:26:59.480
Actor rayle Otis was born in Newark, New Jersey, in

521
00:26:59.559 --> 00:27:02.599
nineteen fifty four. He first got known in the movie

522
00:27:02.759 --> 00:27:06.480
Something Wild. Then he played shoeless Joe Jackson in Field

523
00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:09.880
of Dreams. He got famous for the movie Goodfellas. He

524
00:27:10.039 --> 00:27:13.039
was in over seventy movies. He married once for seven

525
00:27:13.119 --> 00:27:15.680
years and had a daughter. Ray died in his sleep

526
00:27:15.799 --> 00:27:18.359
in twenty twenty two at sixty seven years old. You

527
00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:20.200
know Ray, I told you, Oh, go.

528
00:27:20.160 --> 00:27:22.319
Ahead, No, I was going to say that Ray, he

529
00:27:22.440 --> 00:27:24.440
was actually the number one pick for that TV show

530
00:27:24.480 --> 00:27:26.799
The Sopranos. He turned it down, and that's when they

531
00:27:27.279 --> 00:27:29.160
came up with was the other guy?

532
00:27:29.599 --> 00:27:33.160
Uh? Well, I was going to say that. This is

533
00:27:33.160 --> 00:27:36.720
where Iowa was coming into the picture here, because Field

534
00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:41.079
of Dreams was filmed in Dryersville, Iowa, and I have

535
00:27:41.559 --> 00:27:45.079
been there. I've seen the field. I will say it

536
00:27:45.279 --> 00:27:47.799
is not probably something you need to put on your

537
00:27:47.960 --> 00:27:50.920
bucket list unless you are just a huge Field of

538
00:27:51.000 --> 00:27:51.559
Dreams fan.

539
00:27:52.359 --> 00:27:54.200
Not that impressive but kind of cool if you happen

540
00:27:54.200 --> 00:27:54.960
to be in the neighborhood.

541
00:27:55.359 --> 00:27:56.680
Well it's just a field. Yeah.

542
00:27:57.680 --> 00:28:00.559
Hey, why don't you brag about yourself? So let's talk

543
00:28:00.559 --> 00:28:03.279
about your award winning book. What award was that?

544
00:28:03.880 --> 00:28:07.599
I won an award called an International Impact Book Award

545
00:28:08.279 --> 00:28:12.119
for the book and it's Loving Knight's Piece, Our Next Evolution.

546
00:28:12.440 --> 00:28:15.039
And the category that I won the award of the

547
00:28:15.119 --> 00:28:19.519
award inn was self help Emotional Resilience.

548
00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:22.440
Well that's cool. Now this guy's won some award. Let's

549
00:28:22.440 --> 00:28:50.240
se if you can identify him any guesses, No, yep.

550
00:28:50.319 --> 00:28:51.920
In the movie Johnny Swaye, I don't know how you

551
00:28:52.039 --> 00:28:53.440
got that one. That was before you were.

552
00:28:53.400 --> 00:28:55.720
Born, but she had a hint.

553
00:28:58.559 --> 00:29:01.119
Now, Braddy's sixty two. He won in Shawne, Oklahoma. In

554
00:29:01.200 --> 00:29:04.400
nineteen sixty three. He grew up in Springfield, Missouri. Now

555
00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:07.039
he won the Best Picture Oscar for twelve Years a slave,

556
00:29:07.119 --> 00:29:09.359
he was a producer. He won an acting Oscar for

557
00:29:09.440 --> 00:29:12.160
Once upon a Time in Hollywood, nominated for Oscars for

558
00:29:12.279 --> 00:29:15.519
Our Moneyball, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button in twelve Monkeys.

559
00:29:15.799 --> 00:29:17.519
Now his best acting job. I think, I don't know

560
00:29:17.519 --> 00:29:19.319
if you guys seen it. It was in nineteen ninety three.

561
00:29:19.400 --> 00:29:21.960
Is a movie called California with the California Skilled with

562
00:29:22.039 --> 00:29:25.160
a k that he's a serial killer and his girlfriend

563
00:29:25.240 --> 00:29:26.279
is Jennifer Lewis.

564
00:29:26.599 --> 00:29:31.000
Anyway, I tend to not watch movies about serial killers

565
00:29:31.039 --> 00:29:33.000
because it really messes with my love and peace.

566
00:29:33.559 --> 00:29:37.039
That is true. But this was before the Lightning Struck though.

567
00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:41.279
Yeah, it was before the Lightning Struck. Was still no Brad.

568
00:29:41.319 --> 00:29:43.880
He married Jennifer Aniston for five years, and then he

569
00:29:43.920 --> 00:29:47.759
married Angela Angeline and Joli for six They had six kids.

570
00:29:47.920 --> 00:30:00.799
Three were biological and three were adopted bread where gee

571
00:30:01.240 --> 00:30:04.680
would that helping egg and bring don't need to change

572
00:30:04.720 --> 00:30:05.240
your line.

573
00:30:07.359 --> 00:30:09.599
I'm going out my boots.

574
00:30:11.160 --> 00:30:14.039
That brings us to country singer Randy Hauser, who is

575
00:30:14.200 --> 00:30:18.759
fifty today born in Lake, Mississippi in nineteen seventy five.

576
00:30:19.319 --> 00:30:22.039
So Randy starved as a songwriter and he is the

577
00:30:22.119 --> 00:30:26.359
one who wrote Trace Atkinson, Honky Tonk, Badonka Donk. Eventually though,

578
00:30:26.400 --> 00:30:28.559
they let Randy sing in two thousand and eight, and

579
00:30:28.920 --> 00:30:31.960
he has hits such as boots on, How Country Feels,

580
00:30:32.079 --> 00:30:34.920
Running Out of Moonlight, and good Night Kiss. Randy has

581
00:30:34.920 --> 00:30:36.839
a son from his first wife and has been married

582
00:30:36.880 --> 00:30:40.160
to his second wife since twenty sixteen, of which they

583
00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:43.759
have two sons together, and he will be heading out

584
00:30:43.839 --> 00:30:45.839
to do some show starry February thirteenth.

585
00:30:46.720 --> 00:30:50.839
Actress Katie Holmes was born in Toledo, Ohio, in nineteen

586
00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:53.000
seventy eight, and she is forty seven today.

587
00:30:53.200 --> 00:30:53.759
Do the math.

588
00:30:54.160 --> 00:30:57.160
Her first big hit on TV was Dawson's Creek. Some

589
00:30:57.319 --> 00:31:00.119
of her movies have been Phone Booth, Batman, Begas and

590
00:31:00.599 --> 00:31:04.119
Jack and Jill and first Daughter. She married the very

591
00:31:04.240 --> 00:31:07.200
famous Tom Cruise for six years and they had a daughter.

592
00:31:09.799 --> 00:31:15.440
Girl and as us I'm.

593
00:31:18.920 --> 00:31:22.759
A girl girl, what a j.

594
00:31:25.000 --> 00:31:31.119
I'm sanging you Jim Crew. The one and only Christina Aguilera,

595
00:31:31.200 --> 00:31:33.759
which this one blows my mind because she is forty

596
00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:37.799
five today, born on Staten Island, New York in nineteen eighty.

597
00:31:38.359 --> 00:31:40.400
It just seems so young in my mind to me still,

598
00:31:40.640 --> 00:31:44.440
probably because I was young when she was young. Christina

599
00:31:44.519 --> 00:31:47.279
has a four octave voice range, which apparently that is

600
00:31:47.400 --> 00:31:50.039
quite uncommon, and that is why she is called the

601
00:31:50.119 --> 00:31:53.440
voice of a generation, while this generation, those who grew

602
00:31:53.480 --> 00:31:55.839
up in the eighties had Pat Benattar, who had a

603
00:31:55.960 --> 00:32:00.160
four point five range. So Christina started out on the

604
00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:03.599
new Mickey Mouse Law But when she was thirteen, and

605
00:32:03.799 --> 00:32:06.759
she has now sold over one hundred million records including

606
00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:11.519
Ganina Bottle, What a Girl Wants, What We Just Listened To, Lee, Marmalade, Beautiful,

607
00:32:12.160 --> 00:32:16.400
and more. She also speaks and sings in English and Spanish,

608
00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:20.720
obviously extending her reach and her amazing talent. And as

609
00:32:20.720 --> 00:32:23.359
an actress, she started a share in the movie Burlesque.

610
00:32:23.759 --> 00:32:26.000
So Christina was married for six years and they had

611
00:32:26.039 --> 00:32:28.160
a son, and now she has a daughter with her

612
00:32:28.240 --> 00:32:32.039
fiance who she has been engaged to since twenty fourteen.

613
00:32:32.480 --> 00:32:34.519
I don't know why we didn't leave this for you, Ashley.

614
00:32:35.640 --> 00:32:40.279
It's fun like you really well, I just caugh. It's

615
00:32:40.400 --> 00:32:44.519
just always aveun. I'm the bad side, make you mose

616
00:32:44.759 --> 00:32:47.200
sad size, makes your girl friend lad side.

617
00:32:49.640 --> 00:32:51.880
I'm good good.

618
00:32:53.359 --> 00:32:57.079
H twenty four year old Billie Eilish. She was born

619
00:32:57.160 --> 00:32:59.480
in Los Angeles in two thousand and one. She believes

620
00:32:59.519 --> 00:33:01.640
her first thing Go Ocean Eyes back in twenty fifteen,

621
00:33:02.000 --> 00:33:04.279
and in twenty nineteen that song I played Bad Guys.

622
00:33:04.400 --> 00:33:05.920
It was the number one selling song in the world,

623
00:33:06.240 --> 00:33:08.000
the Ela. She went an Academy Award. Yeah, it was

624
00:33:08.039 --> 00:33:10.000
her first. Her song No Time to Die from the

625
00:33:10.119 --> 00:33:13.400
James Bond movie. And she's not dating. She didn't really

626
00:33:13.400 --> 00:33:15.799
talk about her personal life. She's tired of people speculating

627
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:18.240
and stuff, so she's not taking out who she's dating,

628
00:33:18.359 --> 00:33:20.480
what she's dating, or anything like that. She has done

629
00:33:20.920 --> 00:33:23.039
all right now. But if people go to your website,

630
00:33:23.119 --> 00:33:25.119
they're going to run into a blog. That page. I

631
00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:27.680
think you write it correct, and it's got fun things

632
00:33:27.720 --> 00:33:30.079
like fat habits to keep you from creating peace and

633
00:33:30.079 --> 00:33:32.960
all kinds of different book. What inspired what does this

634
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:34.920
come to your mind that day or do you think about.

635
00:33:35.359 --> 00:33:37.559
Honestly, there's a lot of things I don't write about

636
00:33:37.599 --> 00:33:39.440
that I could write about. It just has to do

637
00:33:39.599 --> 00:33:42.559
with how much time one has in the day. But yeah,

638
00:33:42.720 --> 00:33:44.400
this stuff just comes to my mind. It you know,

639
00:33:45.279 --> 00:33:48.880
I want, from the deepest part of my being, I

640
00:33:49.480 --> 00:33:53.000
really want people to be happy. I don't want them

641
00:33:53.079 --> 00:33:57.119
to struggle, you know. I want people to genuinely live

642
00:33:57.680 --> 00:34:01.200
a life that makes them happy, that is peaceful, that

643
00:34:01.640 --> 00:34:05.279
they really, you know, feel that love for themselves. And

644
00:34:05.440 --> 00:34:07.359
so yeah, when I'm sitting down to write, all these

645
00:34:07.400 --> 00:34:09.960
different messages come to mind. I mean, it's my goal

646
00:34:10.079 --> 00:34:12.559
to just put positivity out into the world, put love

647
00:34:12.599 --> 00:34:13.320
out into the world.

648
00:34:13.679 --> 00:34:15.480
So do you guys kind of like tag team the

649
00:34:15.519 --> 00:34:18.840
ideas for like like the blogs and the podcasts and

650
00:34:18.920 --> 00:34:21.039
what you're going to change your courses on or does

651
00:34:21.079 --> 00:34:22.760
one of you take the lead and then the other one. Yeah,

652
00:34:22.760 --> 00:34:24.679
it kind of inspires you and then you guys work together.

653
00:34:24.960 --> 00:34:26.920
I'd say for the most part, we work together across

654
00:34:26.960 --> 00:34:29.679
the board. I Mean, the blogs are primarily written by

655
00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:32.360
my mom at this point, but we have both co

656
00:34:33.000 --> 00:34:36.079
authored much of the courses. And we are always working

657
00:34:36.119 --> 00:34:39.159
together on the podcast, bringing our different ideas to the table.

658
00:34:39.320 --> 00:34:41.320
So for the most part, I would say this is

659
00:34:41.400 --> 00:34:43.559
honestly a very equitable team effort.

660
00:34:44.039 --> 00:34:46.840
It is, and Ashlan has she is the idea person.

661
00:34:47.039 --> 00:34:47.199
Man.

662
00:34:47.320 --> 00:34:50.239
If you need a creative idea, especially if you need

663
00:34:50.280 --> 00:34:53.400
to creative idea for something fun, Ashland is your gal.

664
00:34:53.840 --> 00:34:56.320
And that's one thing too. I mean it kind of

665
00:34:56.480 --> 00:35:01.039
sounds not melancholling. It just sounds inner peace. You know

666
00:35:01.119 --> 00:35:03.199
when you talk about what you know, you just want

667
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:05.679
to loving night's peace, you know, it just sounds wholesome

668
00:35:05.719 --> 00:35:07.800
and all that kinds of But you can ignite love

669
00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:08.880
with peace and have fun too.

670
00:35:09.559 --> 00:35:11.920
Heck, yeah, what's the point if we are having fun?

671
00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:14.800
Honestly, we wouldn't have it any other way.

672
00:35:15.400 --> 00:35:18.159
Yeah, I think that there's definitely something to change kind

673
00:35:18.159 --> 00:35:20.480
of the perception around that it's not just about meditating

674
00:35:20.519 --> 00:35:22.360
your way to peace. You know, we're not sitting here

675
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:25.599
on a mountaintop, you know, just like the Dalai Lama,

676
00:35:26.000 --> 00:35:30.639
but we are really bringing actionable tools to normal, everyday

677
00:35:30.679 --> 00:35:34.440
people to create a happier, healthier experience.

678
00:35:34.960 --> 00:35:38.320
Well, I know, you want to inspire and educate as

679
00:35:38.360 --> 00:35:40.559
many people as possible. You have any big goals coming

680
00:35:40.639 --> 00:35:41.320
up for this next year?

681
00:35:41.679 --> 00:35:42.760
That's an billiard question.

682
00:35:43.360 --> 00:35:45.039
Yeah, you're catching us at the end of the year

683
00:35:45.039 --> 00:35:49.199
where we're going to be gathering the last week in December,

684
00:35:49.400 --> 00:35:52.880
putting all of that together. You know, I think for

685
00:35:53.119 --> 00:35:58.000
me personally, I'd like to have more public speaking engagements

686
00:35:58.039 --> 00:36:01.280
in the coming year, and and that'll be something that

687
00:36:01.400 --> 00:36:04.800
Ashlin and I will do together. And you know, she

688
00:36:04.960 --> 00:36:08.039
can speak individually and I can speak individually as well.

689
00:36:08.559 --> 00:36:10.280
I don't know, ash do you have any big goals

690
00:36:10.320 --> 00:36:12.320
for next year that you want to share right now?

691
00:36:12.880 --> 00:36:14.280
Like you said, I think we're still on some of

692
00:36:14.320 --> 00:36:16.199
the ideation phase. But yeah, I mean I have a

693
00:36:16.599 --> 00:36:20.159
definitely from a business perspective, a certain goal with how

694
00:36:20.239 --> 00:36:24.679
many people reach our conflict court course reaches. And I

695
00:36:24.840 --> 00:36:27.320
also think that getting on stage of like a ted

696
00:36:27.480 --> 00:36:28.320
X would be incredible.

697
00:36:29.599 --> 00:36:30.840
Are you both natural speakers?

698
00:36:31.159 --> 00:36:33.079
My mom's telling very hard on her speaking.

699
00:36:35.159 --> 00:36:38.440
I think we both are. We have a natural ability

700
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:41.719
to get up and publicly speak. But I think there's

701
00:36:41.840 --> 00:36:45.760
always room for practice and improvement. I you know, I'm

702
00:36:45.800 --> 00:36:48.480
still practicing and improving in everything I do.

703
00:36:49.880 --> 00:36:52.320
I also think when when you're in your zone of genius,

704
00:36:52.480 --> 00:36:53.440
like it can just flow.

705
00:36:54.639 --> 00:36:54.840
Yeah.

706
00:36:55.239 --> 00:36:57.119
I was just done. And the reason I was laughing

707
00:36:57.159 --> 00:37:00.719
about that, lots of people ask me for tips and

708
00:37:00.760 --> 00:37:02.679
all that kind of stuff for public speaking and everything.

709
00:37:03.000 --> 00:37:04.760
And I came up with the other one and one

710
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the other day for this girl, and she was just

711
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starting and I never had so many hits of you know,

712
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smiley faces and agrees on any comment I've ever made.

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And she was, actually, no, I don't worry about the

714
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you know that whole Wives tale about you know, picture

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of the audience in your underwear and that kind of thing,

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because some of the people are going to be good looking,

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so you don't even think about that. I go, if

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you want to bring everybody down to size and make

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everybody seem nobody seem imposing, just removing the mirror that

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every single person that audience has to poop. So that's

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that'll bring them all right down to your level.

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Twitterious.

723
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Yeah, I hadn't thought of that one. All right, you're right,

724
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there is a book about that is really.

725
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It's called Everybody Poops for Children.

726
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Well that's where I wants to lift it it, all right,

727
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So on the Today's Show, notes We're gonna have how

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to get to all your stuff so we can find

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you so they can just look on today's notes. And

730
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thank you for being here. You guys are awesome.

731
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Thank you for having us. It's been so much fun.

732
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Thank you to everyone that's tuned in and listened, and

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we are.

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So tuned in on what happened on December eighteenth, on

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this day in history. Now that all of our friends

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are just going to have to listen to us, reel

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all these off and listen to your podcast, Jeff.

738
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Well, thank you very much, and thank you all for

739
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listening to I know you guys learn something and then

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probably feel a little more relaxed to day too. You

741
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guys both have very good voices, as I can see

742
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how you'd be great bullet speakers. Thank you.

743
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Anybody listening, he wants to hang out more with us,

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you can find us on social media. Love ignites peace

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as well.

746
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Alrighty, and and we do have for.

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Our course being released next year, we do have a

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twenty percent disc account for early for people that sign

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up in advance, and the discount code is Impact.

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All right, let me write that down Impact, so I'll

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be on the show. Note alrighty today we always end

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with a quote and somebody who died day today. I

753
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know we shouldn't end on a sad note, should be,

754
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but Chris Farley, he died today.

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Well, I'm here to tell you that you're probably gonna

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find out as you go out there that you're not

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going to mount didn't stop. You're gonna end up eating

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his steady dying and government cheese and living in a

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bay ni the river.

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Not exactly nighting Love through Peace there, But that was

761
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just Chris. Do you remember him Exaurday night Life.

762
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I do.

763
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Yeah, he's before Ashelon's time, but I certainly remember him.

764
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Yeah, he was only thirty three when he died to

765
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Day in nineteen ninety seven. Now Chris said, I signed

766
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on as a clown, and by golly, I'm gonna keep

767
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my end of the bargain. Well, thank you all for

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listening today. Don't forget to follow us. Make sure you

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check out Love Ignite's Peace and we'll show you how

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to get there. Now we're gonna end with our country

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underground song. Molly from South Carolina requested it's from Karaszynski

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there in her song Save Christmas, You guys have an

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awesome day, and we'll talk tomorrow.

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The night before Christmas, all the kids are a sleep.

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With someone's dealing the.

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Presents right out from under the tree.

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They tan.

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It's just hand to bring time to all.

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The good little girls and boys.

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He also catches of thieves and the.

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Nights, the rend of those badcuts sans rave that song

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the tree they twink, or some bright fellow's fatty break

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on the fight.

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Cleaman Suns came moscuyskad patty.

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He's here, same present