March 9, 2025

March 10-Ranch Dressing, Chuck Norris, Sharon Stone, Robin Thicke, Carrie Underwood, Edie Brickell, Kelci Jager

March 10-Ranch Dressing, Chuck Norris, Sharon Stone, Robin Thicke, Carrie Underwood, Edie Brickell, Kelci Jager

My co-host is Greif and Loss coach Kelci Jeger.  You can find out all about her at https://risewithgrief.com and you can get her incredible book - A million miricles: And one that never came   at Amazon

National Ranch Dressing day.  Entertainment...

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My co-host is Greif and Loss coach Kelci Jeger. You can find out all about her at risewithgrief.com and you can get her incredible book - A million miricles: And one that never came at Amazon

National Ranch Dressing day. Entertainment from 1999.Last naval battle of the American Revolution, 1st telephone call made, Todays birthdays - Chucik Norris, Dean Torrence, Sharon Stone, Jasmine Guy, Nenah Cherry, Edie Brickell, Daryl Singletary, Jon Hamm, Robin Thicke, Carrie underwood, Olivia Wilde. Harriet Tubman died.

Intro - God did good - Dianna Cocoran https://www.diannacorcoran.com/
Ranch dressing song
Angel of mine - Monica
You were mine - Dixie Chicks
Birthdays - In da club - 50 Cent https://www.50cent.com/
Walker Texas Ranger TV theme
Surf City - Jan & Dean
A different world TV theme
Buffalo Stance - Nenah Cherry
What I am - Edie Brickell and the New Bohemians
Too much fun - Daryl Singletary
Blurred Lines - Robin Thicke
Next time before he cheats - Carrie Underwood
Honky Tonk Neon - Anthony Price https://anthonypricemusic.com/music
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Well, hi everyone, and thanks for joining us on History

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and Factor. It's about today. I am Jeff. Today is

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March the tenth. You know what, I think we're really

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going to help someone today or help someone today. My

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co host she went through a horrible tragedy and she's

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able to turn that into turning it into helping the

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rest of us deal with grief and loss. Kelsey, why

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don't you introduce yourself?

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Hey Jeff? Hello everyone? I am Kelsey Jaeger and I

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am so excited to be here co hosting Today by Day.

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I am a certified life coach, grief coach, and author.

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I also happen to be a widow, a solo mom

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to four amazing boys, and I am someone who firmly

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believes that laughter and healing go hand in hand. So

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what weird, wild and wonderful things happened on this day

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in history? Jeff?

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Well, let's start off. Do you like what do you

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put on your salad? What kind of dressing? I am?

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You might think this is boring, but I am a vinegar,

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balsamic vinegar, and olive oil girl.

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Okay, well we're not going to go healthy today. We're

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going to celebrate this US boy, chill it so lost

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and it's rising till it.

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So it's best and it's.

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Yeah, it is National ranch Dressing Day today. So little

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fattier than your vinegar and olive oil and stuff.

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Yeah, I mean, truth be told. I am like, I

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try to eat as healthy as possible, but I do

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have a major sweet tooth. I do not have a

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ranch tooth.

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So well hidden valley they were out there, there were

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a dude ranch outside of Santa Barbara, California, and they

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got known for the dressing they were putting on their

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salads for their guests out there. But who knew that

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just buttermilk and a whole bunch of herbs was huge.

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A ranch dressing was actually created by a Nebraska plumber

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who was working up in Alaska. His name was Steve

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Hanson in nineteen forty nine. But nowadays ranch it's not

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really healthy. But it's not for salads anymore either. It's

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gonna be used for dips, for chips and French fries.

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People put them on sandwiches and burgers and pizza. Pretty

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much anything you want, you can put it into ranch dressing,

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all rightunless he's going on entertainment on March tenth. Let's

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go back to nineteen ninety nine. Number one album was Baby

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One More Time from Britney Spears. Monica had the number

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one song with Angel of Mine.

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Quin salut Already.

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There was something inside of you, something A tupted ne fit.

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Am.

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Dixie Chicks out the number one country song with You

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Were Mine.

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And sometimes I scream journey one ride? Does she have

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to take you?

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We for? So that number one book was The Testament

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by John Grisham. The top movie was analyzed. This Psychiatrist

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is number one. Patient is a mob boss who has

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serious insecurity issues. It starts Billy Crystal, Robert De Niro,

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and Lisa Kudrow. Now, you actually started out in the

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aerospace industry.

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Right, Well, I started off in the medical industry as

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a registered nurse. Oh, and then I got pulled into

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the aerospace industry by my husband when he started an

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aerospace company.

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Oh that's that's kind of a kind of a funny leap.

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There, right, and then I went from there to grief coaching.

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So go figure.

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Yeah, we probably never figured out. Rumor has it that

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you never thought you did? But you wrote yourself a

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really good book, didn't you?

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I did? I did. My book is called A Million

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Miracles and the One That Never Came, and it shares

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my personal personal journey through love, loss and finding purpose again.

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And I believe that even in the darkest moments, we

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can still create a life filled with meaning and joy.

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You know, I think all my co hosts are cool.

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Otherwise I wouldn't want to hang out and talk with them.

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went on Amazon and looked at your book's reviews. Man,

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it's a couple four stars, but all of them are

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it's not a short book, but they all tell me

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author and it's my personal story, it really warms my

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heart to hear that.

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Well, that is cool. So that definitely means it's not

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just a book that's out for right now that's going

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to be way. We're helping out people for years, I believe.

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Yes, yes it is. It is a very impactful book.

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Oh okay, Well let's see what happened. On March the tenth,

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teen eighty three, the last naval battle the United States

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Revolution was fought was off of Cape Canaveral, Florida. United

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States beat the British. Yes, Captain John Barry and his

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ship the Alliance. They were able to capture the British

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ship Sibylly. Now, if you go down there, have you

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been to a historical marker side? Have you ever been there?

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I have? I have. It's not too too far from me,

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just a few hours from where I left. So yes,

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I have.

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But so I guess you go and then you can

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look out on the ocean where it.

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Took place, right, Yes, And I can sometimes see the

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rocket launches from my house.

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Oh that's really cool.

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Yes, it is very cool.

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Eighteen sixty four, General Ulyss He's s grant. He was

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named commander of the entire Union Army. Wasn't he didn't

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start off that way? Eighteen seventy six, the first telephone

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call was made. Alexander Graham Belly called his assistant Thommas Watson,

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who is just in another room. Bell simply said, mister Watson,

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come in here. I want to say you. Well, he

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did just see. You know the reason Watson was able

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to answer the phone. Watson's one who actually invented the

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ringer for the telephone. Now Belle, he actually wanted people

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to answered the phone ahoy. But later on when Thomas

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Edison got ahold of it and started Robly Pool missing,

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he changed didn't wanted everybody to say hello. Eighteen ninety

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three New Mexico State University, they had to cancel their

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first graduation ceremony Sam Steele. He was the only graduate

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from the school in that first class. Sadly, Samy was

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killed in murdered the night before the graduation ceremony. Nineteen

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twenty two, Denver's first radio station KLZ went on there

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it's still there if you want to go listen to

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AM talk radio. So you're kind of young. So in

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nineteen ninety seven, Buffy the Vanfire Slayer debut on TV.

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Were you a Buffy fan?

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I was not. I was not a Buffy fan, but

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I was in high school at that time, and I

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definitely remember Buffy the Van Player Slayer, but I was

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not a fan. I thought it was a little ridiculous,

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to be honest.

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Now you now your company is It's Rise with Grief

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and Loss and you do a lot of coaching and

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stuff to help other people suffer and get through it

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and all that. So you do individual and but just

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I know you have a newsletter.

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Yes, so I do one on one private coaching.

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I have.

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A self guided coaching program that's all online. I do

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have a free newslet, Grief newsletter that I send out

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every week if anybody wants to find out about my

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coaching programs for grief and loss. My website is ww

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dot risew grief dot com and you can find all

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the information there and you can also get my book

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uh Million Miracles and the One that Never Came there

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as well.

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So the people who come to you with their help

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are they the ones who immediately you know they just

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lost and they have nowhere to go, or have they

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been trying to fight through it themselves and they just realize, Hey,

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I need help. I can't do this alone. Both both.

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I have people that reach out to me. I mean

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I've had people reach out to me the day after

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their loved one died, all the way up to clients

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that it's been six seven years. And so I meet

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my clients where they are in their grief and I

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help them navigate through it and find a path way forward.

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And I think that'd be the hardest point for you,

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is to find the path because everybody's so different. I

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mean some people it's I think a lot would probably

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just be guilt. They don't know that they're allowed to

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be happy again.

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Keelt is a huge thing in grief, and you're right,

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everybody's different, everybody's at a different place. There's no right

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or wrong way to do grief. It's very individual. It's

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a it's a universal experience, but it's a very individual process.

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And so that's why I and they meet everybody where

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they are and work with them individually.

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Well that sounds great. Somebody out there going to do

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that because I mean, that's not really a fun subject,

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but it might be a little therapeutic for you also

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as you're going through helping your clients.

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Yes, you know, I never ever thought that I would

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be talking to people about grief and loss all day, right,

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If you would have asked me five years ago, I

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would have thought you were nuts, and then if you

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told me that I would love it, I would think

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you were really, really crazy. But I do love it

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so much, and it is so fulfilling and rewarding for

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me to see the shift and the change in my

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client's life and they're grief from when they first come

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to me to and as we work together, and for

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me it is very therapeutic. It gives purpose to my.

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Pain, I bet, and it's almost like you're witnessing almost

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what lack of better to rebirth almost of them to

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back in their lives.

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Absolutely exactly exactly that, which is why the name of

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my company is called Rise because we rise from the ashes.

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We literally our world burns to the ground and we

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can rise from the ashes and we don't leave our

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grief behind. It's not something that we get over. It

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comes with us. And so that's the name Rise with Grief.

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And that's probably one of the biggest thing. You have

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to let the people know that you're always going to

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have the grief, but you have to just live and

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get past it and kind of a different chapter in

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your life.

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Basically, right, Yeah, your grief becomes a companion for the

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rest of your life. But as you learn to move

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through it and process it, and you gain tools on

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how to navigate it. It shifts and evolve and changes,

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but it's always there. It just doesn't have to be

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so debilitating and controlling.

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Yeah. See, people, I told him we were going to

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teach help somebody out today.

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All right.

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I think you were still in high school for this.

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Because on a scene in Texas where the.

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Rangers, you're a Chuck Norris fan.

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Uh. I do know Chuck Norris. I don't know that

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I would call myself a fan. I've never heard that

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song before. Is that one of his songs? I thought

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he was an actor.

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He is that. Back in the nineties, he decided he

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was going to be a singer, and he had a

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show called Walker, Texas Ranger, and he decaid he was

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going to sing sing the theme thongs. He sing the

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theme song.

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So that's what Okay, Okay, I have some thoughts about that,

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but I think I'll keep him to myself.

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Your thoughts are pretty much everybody else in the nineties

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thought too. So Chuck Darris. His name is actually Carlos.

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He was born in Ryan, Oklahoma. He's eighty five today.

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keeping himself in pretty good shade. Now. He did learn

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martial arts until he went into the Air Force. Yeah,

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and then when he came out, he then so good.

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He started winning martial arts championship, ended up on his

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own dojo out there in California, started training celebrities. Then

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Bruce Lee asked him, Hey, you want to come play

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the villain in my movie Way of the Dragon. He said, sure,

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why not. After he did the movie, Steve mc queen

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and told him, hey, you know you should take this

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acting seriously. So Chuck did the movie Good Guys Wear Black,

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and uh yeah, never turned back. Now he's done over

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thirty five movies and now he's always a total badass

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in the movies. But you know how Chuck, he's tough.

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And then there's all those jokes about how tough Chuck

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Norris is. Dude's only five nine hundred and seventy pounds.

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Oh no, kidding, I didn't know he was that short.

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He's a loop guy. Now, him and his first wife,

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they got divorced after thirty years. They had two children,

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I think, and the reason for the divorces he had

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another kid on the side. He married a second wife

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in nineteen ninety eight and they have two children now.

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Chuck he's a black belt in tang sudo Brazilian jiu

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jitsu judo. He even created his own discipline. It was

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called Chunk cuc Do. That was back in the sixties,

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but by now they just call it the Chuck Norris system.

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You're a fan of surf music.

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I am a fan of surfing. My whole family surfs.

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My boys are very very big into surfing. In fact,

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we're going on a surf street trip next week for

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spring break. But I can't say that I love that

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surf music. Well, I'm really not negative. It seems like

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I'm negative today, but I'm really not. I'm really not.

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I promise, I promise.

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But you know who Jan and Dean are though.

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Right, I don't, But I am gonna. I just learned

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he got them, Okay, we just learn about them. So

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you want me to tell you what I learned?

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Sure? Okay?

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So Dean of Jan and Dean. He's eighty five today,

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born in Los Angeles, and he and Jen Jan met

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in high school. They would sing together after football practice.

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They were joined by future actor James Brolin, and they

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formed Jan and Dean in nineteen fifty nine, and a

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couple of years later they met up with a guy

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named Brian Wilson. They do know who that is, and

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he gave them a song he wrote called Surf City,

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and it became the first surf song to go number one,

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and the rest of the Beach Boys were pretty mad

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at Ryan. And some other Jan and Dean hits are

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a Little Old Lady from Pasadena, Drag City, Dan Man's,

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dead Man's Curve, sidewalk Surfing, and in nineteen sixty six,

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at the height of their popularity, Jan wrecked his car

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a couple of blocks from dead Man's Curve and they

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were never the same and Dean married in nineteen eighty three.

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That's right, And yeah, I'm more of a beast boy.

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I mean there were before my type too, But basically,

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you know how now you have all the bands from

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the nineties coming back, So we had the bands from

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the sixties coming back when we were in like high school.

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Okay, okay, okay, that makes sense. That makes sense.

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Cool.

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Do you know who else's birthday today? Actress Sharon Stone?

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Guess how old she is?

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I think she's probably older than she looks.

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This is true. She looks amazing. I cannot believe she's

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sixty seven. That blows me away. She was born in Meadville, Pennsylvania,

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and she started out as a model. Her first starring

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role was in a movie called Velocity of Gold, and

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then she was in Total Recall, Basic Instinct, The Quick

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and the Dead. She was nominated for an Oscar for

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the movie Casino. She's been divorced twice and she has

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a son from her second marriage, and she has two

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adopted sons.

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I ran to love Man one Lady, I'm no Lovemaden Offer.

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That's a Different World. They changed themes on every single year.

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It was created by Bill Cosby as a spinoff from

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The Cosby Show back in the eighties. It was supposed

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to star Lisa Bonet, but it ended up starting actress

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Jasmine Guy. She was born in Boston sixty three today.

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She played Whitney on a Different World and she was

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later on she was on Touch by Angel. She did

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the Vampire Diaries. Some of her movies are School Days,

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Harlem Knights, Stumped the Yard, home Coming. She married once

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for ten years and they had she had a daughter

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from it. We chair you might have danced Anina Cherry

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in your diaper. She's sixty one. She was born in Stockholm, Sweden.

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Her half brother. Do you know the musician EAGLEYE Cherry?

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No, I don't.

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Yeah, let's hit songs in the sister. But they both

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had like one big song. Now they're both like I said,

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they were in Sweden. Their mom was Swedish and she

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ended up marrying a blues musician who was over there

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and his last name was Cherry, and so basically that's

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how they came to be and then that's how they

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got into music. Now, Nina. In order to get big

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in music, she moved to England in nineteen eighty two

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had they had song seven seconds Kisses in the Wind

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Buffalo Stance. She still releases and does a lot of

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music over in Sweden and tours Europe and stuff. She

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had a daughter from her first husband, married a second

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husband in nineteen ninety and they have two daughters.

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Shell Well.

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What you wo, I do know that song? I do

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know Edie Brikel. I did listen to her growing up

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and she is fifty nine. Born in Dallas, Texas. In

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nineteen eighty five, she joined the band The New Bohemians

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and when they got their record record deal, the record

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company changed their name to Edie Brikel and the New Bohemians.

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What I Am that song you just played Mama Helped Me?

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And A Hard Ring's Gonna Fall or some of their hits.

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They are still together and Edie has done a few

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things on the side. She married singer Paul Simon in

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nineteen ninety two and they have three children.

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They hooked up, actually they were both on Saturday Night

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Live at the same time.

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Oh, I didn't know that idea.

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I know that too much. Watch that name's black too

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much money, you know what sense? Black Girl twenty were

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too much glass being two ln years are too maast

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no matter what they say. Oh I never had too much.

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Country. Singer Darryl Singletary was born in Cairo, Georgia in

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nineteen seventy one, and he had a lot of success

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in the mid nineties through the early two thousands. He

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had hits Eyeletter, Lie, Too Much Fun, A Men Kind

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of Love. He married his second wife in two thousand

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and three and they had four children, but sadly, in

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twenty eighteen, at just forty six years old, Darryl died

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and they never have released how but it is believed

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that he had a massive heart attack and it wasn't

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anything fishy.

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Yeah, four year Type two. We're getting to some people

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that you're gonna know here in a little bit. Actor

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John Ham. He's actually fifty four. He was born in

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Saint Louis, Missouri. He had on the series on TV

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on Providence and then he did the Division Probably mess

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no for mad Men. I guess he did not Unbreakable

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Kemmy Schmidt for a couple of years. Some of those

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movies where the Day There sits still tag Richard Dull

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top gun Maverick got married in twenty twenty three.

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Must want to get.

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Robin Thick. Now he's closer to your agent. He's actually

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you can't see me, but I was dancing.

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I was dancing to his song.

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He's forty eight. He was born in Los Angeles. Probably

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his parents are actress Gloria Lauren and Alan Thick. Now Robin.

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He did a lot of songwriting before they let him sing.

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Then.

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Some of the big songs since then is Lost Without You, Love,

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After War, Sex Therapy, blurredy Lines. He's been a judge

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on Masked Singer since he started in twenty nineteen. Now

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he and his wife they've been together twenty one years.

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When they divorced, they had one child. Now he's been

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engaged and they have three kids.

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Helloime time.

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The Queen, Miss Carrie Underwood is forty two and she

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won the fourth season on American Idol. And I call

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her the Queen because she has sold over eighty five

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million records. She has twenty two number one songs. She's

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the third most famous female country singer behind Reva and Dolly.

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Harry has been singing the opening for Sunday Night Football

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since twenty thirteen. In twenty ten, she was married and

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she has two sons.

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This is kind of just a funny side note. She

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married a hockey player. I don't know if you knew that,

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and I and her husband got He was playing for

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the Nashville Predators where they you know, that's how she

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met it. Well, he got traded up to Canada, and

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so this radio station came on and says, until they

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bring him back, we're never playing another Carrie Underwood song again.

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And it got blown up and it just went viral,

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and nobody could believe this radio station did well. They

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didn't play Cary anyway. It was a heavy metal station.

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Oh well, there you go. Actress Olivia Wilde is forty one.

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She was born in New York City, grew up in Washington,

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d C. She started out on TV in the OC.

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Fun fact, The OC was filmed in my neighborhood. So

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when I watched the OC growing up, and while I

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would see them filming it as I went around town.

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And so she was started out in the OC and

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then went into movies Tron Legacy, Cowboy and Cowboys and Aliens,

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The Change Up, Deadfall. Olivia was buried for eight years.

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After she divorced. She was with actor Jason Suda Keys.

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Did I say his name right?

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I think it's I'm bothered that.

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Okay, that sounds better sidekis. So she was with him

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for nine years and they have two children together.

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Okay, Now, now, grief, you know, when we're talking about it,

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we're having fun with it and everything. Can it like

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with terminal patients when they helped to have a grief

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coach as you're before the person dies.

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So grief is grief comes from any sort of loss.

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And so my husband passed away from leukemia at the

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age of forty. He battled for five hundred and fifty

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nine days. During that time, there was so much grief

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that he experienced that I experienced. And could I have

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used a coach at that time, absolutely yes, But he

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have used a coach at that time, absolutely yes. I

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think anytime you are in something that is just so

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completely overwhelming and life changing, you can benefit from somebody

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to say, here, take my hand, and I'm going to

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show you the way through this, and that's exactly what

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I do.

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Well, that is so cool, and we're gonna if you

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didn't get it earlier, we're gonna put her website on

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our the notes for today, so you can always check

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that out. And if you don't need it, I'm sure

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you might know somebody who does. And so yeah, I

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look her up and definitely try and go after that

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book and recommend that book to somebody. I think, like

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I said, I think we're going to help some people today.

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So thank you.

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Yeah, well, thank you for being here today. It's really

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great talking to you.

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Yeah, this has been so fun, Jeff. I'm usually in

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deep conversations about grief and resilience and healing, but today

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has been a fun, little great to just pause and

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appreciate the weird and wonderful things that make up history. Right,

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So thanks for letting me part of the conversation.

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That's, like you said earlier, that's life.

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You know, Yes, that is life.

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We're gonna end today with former slave and she was

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the leader of the underground Railroad. Her name is Harriet Tubman.

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She's died it in twenty or nineteen thirteen. She's ninety

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one years old. She said, Lord, I'm gonna hold on

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steady and you've got to help see me through it. Well,

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thank you all for listening that. We sure appreciate it.

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We have an in that country radio station that's on

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the it's called Country Interground Radio. Every day we end

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with an artist that we play on there. Today we're

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gonna end with Anthony Price and his song Honky Tunk

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Me You on. You guys have an awesome day and

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we'll talk tomorrow.

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Hey, lad, I'm leave who light and cruise up and

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down the road a burning Nada Robberts seeing how fast

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you can go run around and all over time up

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Luke and bunk to see what it's all foul. Yeah,

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Namdn Willie singing in a country song.

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Another Paint song, Train song, doing something a good girl.

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Wrong. I wrote in with the sixth string, looking for

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some offend, and nothing but the shirt on my fat.

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That home, he told me of the start of living,

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went two fash