Episodes

Jan. 31, 2022

Episode 31: Removing Dementia Stigma & Stereotypes--Interview with Donna Marentay

The current thinking about dementia care needs to change. In today's podcast, I interview Donna Marentay. , fellow nurse and dementia educator. We discuss OUR VIEW of some hot potato topics: how a dementia diagnosis should N…
Jan. 23, 2022

Episode 30: Shadowing, featuring Nurse Practitioner Lindsey Robbins

Shadowing is a very challenging behavior faced by dementia caregivers. The person living with dementia has to be physically near the caregiver. Caregivers will tell you that they cannot even go to the bathroom without their …
Jan. 16, 2022

Episode 29 Respite Care: Interview with Daphne Johnston

In today’s episode, I have my first ever podcast guest, the amazing Daphne Johnston. Ms. Johnston is a visionary who is changing the face of dementia care through her Respite Care Model, an all-volunteer model that gives mea…
Jan. 6, 2022

Episode 28: Third part of free workshop, "Helping People Living with Dementia Who Refuse Care."

This one is the effing bomb, people! I put all of the stuff together and give you a blueprint for handling all sorts of care refusals. But you know what? These 3 podcasts are just the tip of the iceberg!! In my Dementia Beha…
Jan. 4, 2022

Episode 27: Second part of free workshop, "Helping People Living with Dementia Who Refuse Care"

Woohoo! Yes, awesome caregivers. Here is part 2 of my free and fantastic workshop. If you want to catch the full experience, video and all, go here: https://wp.me/p951Pg-12J My book, " Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide…
Jan. 3, 2022

Episode 26: Free Workshop Part 1 Helping People Living with Dementia Who Refuse Care

Happy New Year, awesome listeners! I created a free workshop for dementia caregivers. The focus is on handling care refusals and the dreaded "NO!" but I also tackle other behaviors. As an added bonus, I skipped the commercia…
Dec. 28, 2021

Episode 25: What to do When a Person Living with Dementia Won't Take Their Medications

It is frustrating when a person living with dementia won't take their medications. Learn three approaches to handle this problem. My book, " Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors…
Dec. 20, 2021

Episode 24: Joy to the Dementia World: Tips for Dementia Caregiving During the Holidays

This is my holiday special podcast. Yay, the holidays...family, travel, parties...and all sorts of shit that can cause dementia behaviors to skyrocket. Listen to learn some great hacks that help you to make holiday activitie…
Dec. 14, 2021

Episode 23: How to Stop a Person with Dementia From Driving

Once you realize that the person living with dementia can no longer safely drive, how do you stop them from driving? Learn 4 approaches to stopping a person with dementia from driving: Take a break approach Physical reason f…
Dec. 5, 2021

Episode 22: Should My Family Member with Dementia Be Driving?

I often hear, “It’s ok for my family member to drive, even though he has dementia (or Alzheimer’s). He doesn’t go far. He only goes to local places, like Walmart and church.” Listen as I offer some questions for you to hones…
Dec. 1, 2021

Episode 21: Ten Strategies for Dealing with Care Refusals in the Moment (Care Refusals Part 2)

In episode 17, I talked about general ways to prevent care refusals. In this episode, I go a little deeper and talk about how to use 10 specific strategies to derail care refusals in real time. Those strategies are "entering…
Nov. 21, 2021

Episode 20: How Do I Know if My Family Member with Dementia Can Safely Make Decisions?

In today’s podcast, I answer the question, “How do I know if my family member living with dementia can safely make decisions?” This concern usually comes up around financial issues and living arrangements. It is important fo…
Nov. 14, 2021

Episode 19: How to Handle Hallucinations in People Living with Dementia

Hallucinations refer to sights, sounds, feelings, and smells that come from inside the brain. Hallucinations are common with Lewy Body Dementia but can happen with any dementia. The person with dementia is seeing, hearing, o…
Nov. 8, 2021

Episode 18: Five Tips for Creating a Dementia-Friendly Holiday Experience

Holidays can be wonderful, exhausting, amazing, and problematic all at the same time. Add being a dementia caregiver, and things get complicated! This year may be worse, because many families could not spend time together th…
Nov. 2, 2021

Episode 17: What to Do When People with Dementia Refuse Help and Care Part 1

Care refusal is a real pain in the ass. It makes caregiving that much harder. Learn how to hack procedural memories and avoid triggering care refusals using your own appearance and the environment. Other techniques include s…
Oct. 26, 2021

Episode 16: Why People with Dementia Refuse Help

In last week’s podcast, I talked about ways to help a person living with dementia maintain their abilities to do activities. In today’s podcast, I will talk why people with dementia refuse help, even though we can clearly se…
Oct. 18, 2021

Episode 15: Tony Bennett, Salmon Patties, and Fridge Worms: How to Use Meaningful Activities to Maintain Function in Persons with Dementia

Well-meaning family and formal caregivers sometimes start to "overdo" for persons living with dementia. "I don't want her to get hurt" or "I don't want him to feel embarrassed" or "It is just so much easier if I do (fill in …
Oct. 11, 2021

Episode 14: What Causes Irritability in Persons Living with Dementia?

Irritability is a problem that usually first appears in the mild stage of dementia. It can be subtle at first. The person living with dementia does not want to go to social events. Or, he or she wants to leave right in the m…
Oct. 4, 2021

Episode 13: Crash Course in Dementia-Friendly Communication

Dementia-centric communication is the ability to interact with people who have dementia in a respectful and meaningful way. I hear, over and over again, “I don’t know what to say to a person with dementia.” “What if I do som…
Sept. 26, 2021

Episode 12: Dementia Cures are Horsecrap: Reversible Causes of Memory Problems

The title of this episode says it all. There are so many scammers selling supplements and other garbage that will not cure dementia, but desperate caregivers are easy prey. Learn about reversible causes of memory problems, i…
Sept. 19, 2021

Episode 11: Preventing Pee and Poop Accidents in Dementia

Pee and poop accidents, also known as urinary and fecal incontinence, suck for both the dementia caregiver and the person living with dementia. Join Dr. Rita Jablonski and learn easy life hacks to prevent pee and poop accide…
Sept. 10, 2021

Episode 10: How to Stop a Person with Dementia from Peeing in the Trashcan

In today's podcast, I help a listener whose mother-in-law keeps urinating in the laundry room trashcan. Do you have a question or problem that you would like me to answer? Contact me at info@makedementiayourbitch.com . I wou…
Aug. 25, 2021

Episode 9: Dementia & Poop or How to Avoid Accidents and Feces Smearing

People living with dementia can have trouble doing simple things like controlling their bowel movements. In this episode, I discuss how procedural memories and apraxia can cause accidents. I also explain how to prevent accid…
Aug. 10, 2021

Episode 8: Entering Their Reality

People with dementia (Alzheimer's, Lewy Body, vascular, FTD) may refuse care or ask to "go home." Learn how to enter the reality of a person living with dementia. This technique is just one of several strategies that you can…