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Wait the day night sucks. I gotta get to the Starbucks.
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Get some magic beings, be on my way. Magical, as
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was my pon We Don't Know.
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Says that today, Well, hello everybody, and welcome to these
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days with Jeff and Steph. We I hope you're getting
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ready to have a really great labor day weekend.
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Now.
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I am Jeff, Steph. I are things out there in Nashville.
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Things are great here, Jeff. I actually just got home
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from my first day of actual work training, going to
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the y m C. A facility that's fun. It was great.
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I mean, it's it's cool. I feel like I'm I
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feel like I'm coming out of like this. I realized,
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like I don't know if it's because I'm a songwriter
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and a like a script, right, you know, right, being
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a writer, I think I have to process life through
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the lens of a story, right, And so it's like,
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so this YMCA in Green Hills has been recently remodeled,
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and it looks I love mid century modern. It looks
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like a sixties building. And as I'm walking in, I'm
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hearing the theme song from Mary Toller Moore, and you know,
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like she's gonna make it after.
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All, Well, that's a lot better than hearing the village people.
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Why and.
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Exactly, Well, but it is great. It's like the nicest
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people I've ever worked with, and they're so cool. The
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job's fun. There's like no downside too, there's not It's
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not much money, right, but God keep God keeps saying,
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don't worry about the money. I've got that covered. And
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I think that is gonna like you and I have talked,
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I think that it's going to be coming through through
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some really cool new avenues. And yeah, it was fine.
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I get to go to work wearing shorts and tennis
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shoes now, so that's awesome that.
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Yeah, I think most people will go that and actually,
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you know, people think about going to work again. It's
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kind of nice. Just it's basically like you've been in
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a rut to get out and be in people and
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around people. Even though they might have anny, at least
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you're around them again.
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Yeah, it's great. I mean it just and it seems
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like everybody there just is such a well meaning I mean,
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you're always going to deal with with people right that
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have Like she said, you know, yesterday, the big thing
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was having to explain to having to argue with one
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guy that wanted to be in the hot tape area
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that there's a difference between underwear and a swimsuit. She said,
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you might get these from Tom to tom, but in
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general people are pretty cool and really nice. So yeah,
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that should should be interesting. You had an interesting morning
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and texted me about a little God experience.
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Yeah, I did.
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Well.
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Actually, we're going to have a preface this a little bit.
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So all you who are believe in mysticism and signs
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and all that stuff, Stephan, why don't you tell us
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about your connection with birds.
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So God has been speaking to me through birds for
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a while, and the first time I noticed it was
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about a week before my parents died, and so obviously
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that stands out. They would line up at my window
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and peck and try to get in, and there'd be
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several of them my window at work, and I was like, Okay,
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God's trying to tell me something. I've always been pretty
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in tune like that, and I was like, something's about
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to happen. And then when my mom died and then
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my dad died six weeks later, it was just I
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was like, okay that he was I wasn't really sure
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what the birds were saying. But I was like it
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was a sign that God was trying to get my attention,
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and I guess, let me know I'm here. I really
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think one of my purposes is helping, you know, break
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God out of the box and letting people know God
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loves to communicate with nature. And so lately, when I'm
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going through another big life change, birds have been coming up,
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especially hummingbirds. And even He's so good even to make
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a point that I've heard at least three neighbors literally say,
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I don't know where all the humming birds are this year.
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I haven't seen any. And they have humming bird feeders
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and everything, and they're like, I keep replacing all this
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stuff and them, I've got my humming bird feeders out
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and I just don't see a hummingbird. And I'll have
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like three of them. I'll be sitting on my front
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porch and like three will come up to me and
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they'll just have her around me. And usually when I
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it's usually when I say, come, Holy Spirit, and just
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give me a sign. It's usually when I. I mean,
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I'm always praying and I'm asking for signs, and they
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are supposed to represent sudden change and joy. I think
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they definitely are a sign of joy and that God
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and of God's goodness, and he likes to surprise us,
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he really does. He likes to bring change and blessings
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and joy. I just I definitely feel like that's a
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season that you and I are entering into, right And
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so now.
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That you guys are all caught up, so I've been
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hearing her talking about the birds, and I haven't been
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discounting it or anything. I've just been, oh, that's cool,
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you know. And I've been going on around. Well, today's
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sitting there and dealing with my cloud or cats, and
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all of a sudden they hear this tap tap chap
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on my sliding glass door. Looking around, tap tat. I
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looked on, all the cats are inside, so one can
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be outside. And what that there's a hummingbird trying to
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get inside in the door, going back and forth. And
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I was going, what did he pray for?
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Exactly? And you and I just talked about doing the
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Nolvena just for you know, our success to Saint Joseph.
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And I'm telling you, when you invoke the company of
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Heaven and angels, You're gonna see miracles. Your life is
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going to change. Just open your eyes, open your heart,
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because it's just there's so many God moments I see
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throughout the day, and I mean it's just awesome because
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I've literally gone through and also I think you have
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to go through these seasons. I've gone through a season
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just like you have a lot of tears, a lot
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of darkness, a lot of pain, a lot of suffering.
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But it's it's a tangible shift that's happening now where
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I feel joy again. I feel you know that Bible
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verse where God has turned my sorrow into dancing, He's
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turned my morning into laughter or something like that. I
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feel like that's happening. It's just really happening right.
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Now, right And so we are doing the novena for
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Joseph one day. We sorry first SEMy burden in Colorado,
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And if you're wondering here, I'm on the eastern plains
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the color out on the mountains, there's plenty of but
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out there on the plains, you don't see home embirds.
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So that's what it was kind of, Yeah, you don't.
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You don't see hummingbirds in your area, do you?
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And you want to know of God's son that you
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you do good for another person she is getting ready
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to move, and uh, so I looked up and the
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patron Saint of moving is Saint Anne. So I told
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her I was doing a uh prayer for Saint Anne
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for and if you listen to the other show, it's
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kind of a little tie in there.
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Yeah, it's crazy. So I get I get the text
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from you as I'm going to my first day of
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work saying that I am, you know, prayed to Saint
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Anne for you and your move. And she's the patron
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Saint of moving and I didn't even know that. And
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I'm a parishioner of Saint Anne's. That's literally where I'm registered.
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And the priest that I had lunch with was it yesterday.
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My days are kind of flowing together. I don't know
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yesterday of the day before was the priest at Saint
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Anne's and that's his parish, and it's not normal for
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he and I to even have time to get together.
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We had already postponed it twice, like literally, we were
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supposed to start with. This lunch was supposed to happen
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in July, and it's finally just happened the weekend I
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was about to move. And so some people might just
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overlook that. It's like, oh, that's nothing, that's a coincidence.
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But no, it's not a coincidence. That's just God showing
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up in your life saying, you know, I'm just in
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my representative of price to comfort you, to uplift you.
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To He did inspire me. He always inspires me. And
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just to let you know, I'm with you in this
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move and I totally feel his presence with me in
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this move.
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Well, you can think about what you're going through. You're
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going through a move and a new job on the
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same weekend.
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That's kind of yeah, and saying goodbye to home, my love,
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and you know, even even my animals. Ashes 've talked
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about Tico and Samba, my dog and my cat that
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I had for sixteen and eighteen years. It's a long
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time to have two pets. They were, you know, my
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best friends, and you know, even saying goodbye to them
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like literally because I'm gonna I haven't told him yet,
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but I'm going to leave them here, the ashes here,
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and hopefully my ex husband will bury them because I'm
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not strong enough to dig a grave, but I just
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feel strongly. Number one, I'm not one that thinks you
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should just carry around people's remains with your animals remains,
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which you like. Some people might want to do that,
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but for me, it's like, no, they're gone. They're in
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my heart, they're in my memory, and it just seems
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to me like they need to stay with the house.
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They don't. This was their home, you know, this is
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where they died. And I don't think I need to
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take them with me.
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No, I think, And that's part of what you just
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were talking about a new beginning. You can't be carrying
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ashes figurlatatively and literally. You can't be bringing the dead
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with you as you're moving on to a new lifetime.
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That's a really good point. That's while i've you're my
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co host, you make these points, I don't even think about.
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That's And do you hear I don't know if you
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can hear I'm outside? Can you hear the wind chimes? Uh? Huh?
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Well that is what a friend sent to me. That's
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my Teaco wind chimes that literally has a dog's paw
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and a person's hand and a Paul print on it.
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And she sent that to me after Teko, after I
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had to put him down. It's just like a you know,
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a gift to commemorate his memory. And it's been the
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wind has been blowing the same the whole time we've
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been talking, and it just started ringing just now when.
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Him Yeah, okay, well this is the holiday weekend and
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we hope you all have a fun and safe fun.
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We want to bring a little bit up because we're
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all celebrating Labor Day and everything. Let's be honest, nobody
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really likes to work. I mean, like Steph's starting her
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new job, so she's all excited and on it. We'll
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see how happy she is in about three months, right,
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But you know, but you have to realize, trust me,
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I'm not above this at all. This me too. You
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get in this job and oh man, I don't want
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to go. I don't like the people there and all
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this kind of stuff, and you know, oh man, but
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you have to think about how much there is to
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be grateful for having that job. One you have a job,
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you know, and think about all the people out there
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who would love to have your job. I'll take it,
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you know. And not only that, it helps build you
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and strengthen you. You're not going to get that on
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your own. You need the communal support by being on
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the public kind of stuff, even though they can drive
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you crazy. I mean, I don't think they should think
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it's smart to sit in a hot tub and nonwork.
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But okay, right, some people have to write on the
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little school bus too.
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You know that's true.
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So when you're doing that as much as you're dragging
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and you don't want to, just remember, you know, be
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grateful for the job that you have. I mean, there's
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nothing wrong with trying to improve. If you don't like it, well,
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then like would you have to do thirty hours of
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training to get this job?
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Yeah, it was insane. I'm a professional rescuer now I'm certified.
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There was a lot of training. I still have to
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go do the in persons CPR class. You have to
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do that in your first thirty days. So if you're
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a member of the YMCA anywhere, you can rest assured
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people are very well trained to help you if you
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pass out or whatever might be going on. Because it
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was a lot more than just CPR. It was like,
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you know, recognizing child abuse, child neglect, cardiac issues, poisoning,
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heat exhaustion. It was a lot, but it was pretty cool.
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It was actually interesting, and you know it was it